One of the biggest misunderstandings in autism support is the assumption that teaching a skill means the learner will naturally know how,...

Why Co-Regulation Is Key for Autistic Individuals (and Us) Have you ever had one of those days where nothing goes as planned? You spill...

How do you feel when someone dangles a reward in front of you—promising praise, a treat, or a break—if you just do the hard thing they’re...

If one small change could make school safer, calmer, and more inclusive—for everyone—why wouldn’t we do it? Too often, supports for...

If you've ever described a child as “controlling,” “manipulative,” or “defiant,” you’re not alone. As a parent or professional, you’re...

The other day, I walked into the living room and saw a pile of toys scattered across the floor. My child was sitting nearby, calm but...

"My goal wasn’t to fix the child—it was to build the bond.” That powerful quote from Susan, an autistic retired occupational therapist,...

If you’ve ever looked at another autistic child and thought, "Why does it seem easier for them?" Or maybe you've wondered, "Why does no...

Ever felt like you're the only one trying to hold it together—while everything around you feels like it’s falling apart? Whether you're a...

Some people leap into change with excitement. Others need time to warm up. Some cautiously observe first. And many resist it—especially...

Ever had a moment where an autistic child or client did something perfectly one day—but couldn’t do it again the next? Before you assume...

Have you ever assumed you knew why an autistic person was reacting a certain way—only to realize later that you completely misunderstood?...

Are they just trying to get attention? Or are they telling us something important? When a child drags their hand along the wall, knocks...

Stay with me—what you're about to see is important, and I want you to be ready for it. Self-awareness and advocacy are two of the most...

Would you consider yourself as someone who likes "control?" I know when my life feels out of control, I definitely try to control things...

Have you ever watched an autistic child in distress and wondered why they “refuse” to use their words? Why, in moments of frustration,...

What Does Love Really Mean? For many, love is a feeling—expressed through words, hugs, or gifts. But what if those expressions don’t...

For years, professionals have been trained to focus on deficits when working with autistic individuals. What’s "wrong"? What "needs...