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Autistic Student Won't Engage in Therapy? What to Try
What do you do when an autistic child shuts down, walks away, or says no as soon as you introduce a therapy goal? You can be child-led and still work toward meaningful goals. In this conversation, we explore how sensory needs, regulation, processing, and the expectation itself can make participation harder—and why leading with invitation instead of expectation can change what happens in your therapy session.
Staci Neustadt
Sep 193 min read


How Do I Make a Social Communication Assessment More Neuro-Affirming?
You know how to assess autistic students—but how do you make the assessment process more neuro-affirming without overlooking real support needs? Learn how getting curious about strengths, barriers, and access to skills can change what you notice during an assessment—and the goals you write next.
Staci Neustadt
Aug 313 min read


How to Support Autism Regulation in Therapy: 3 Neuro-Affirming Strategies
What if autism regulation starts before therapy even begins? In this week's vlog, Staci Neustadt, SLP, and autistic OT Susan Golubock share three neuro-affirming strategies you can use every session to help autistic clients stay regulated, engaged, and ready to learn—without relying on rewards or behavior management.
Staci Neustadt
Jul 162 min read


From 'You'll Never Succeed' to Special Ed Teacher: What One Autistic Educator Wants Every Teacher to Know
When an autistic student is dysregulated, most educators respond to the behavior. But according to autistic teacher and advocate Becca Engel, that's exactly where we get it wrong.In this episode of Making Sense of Autism, Becca joins SLP Stacy Nustat and occupational therapist Susan Galabach to unpack what's really happening in a child's nervous system during moments of dysregulation — and why the traditional compliance-based approach to classroom behavior may be doing more h
Staci Neustadt
Apr 291 min read


Autism Awareness vs Acceptance: A Simple Shift That Changes Everything
Autism awareness vs acceptance explained. Learn how behavior is communication and how to better support autistic individuals.
Staci Neustadt
Apr 21 min read


Does Neuroaffirming Support Mean Accepting Every Behavior?
Does neuroaffirming support mean accepting every behavior? Learn why understanding autistic behavior is not the same as excusing it.
Staci Neustadt
Mar 121 min read


Autism, Trauma, and Behavior in Schools: Why an Empathy Approach Matters
When a student lashes out, shuts down, or refuses to participate, the response in many schools is immediate: stop the behavior. But what if the behavior is not the real problem? Research shows that 60–65% of students report at least one Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) . Even more concerning, studies estimate that 70–90% of autistic individuals report experiencing at least one traumatic event in their lifetime. For many autistic students, behavior is not defiance. It is a s
Staci Neustadt
Mar 52 min read


Behavior as a Safety Signal
This blog helps you discover if the behavior is due not feeling safe
Staci Neustadt
Jan 292 min read


Not All Behavior Is Asking for Help
Here’s How to Tell the Difference... Have you ever watched an autistic student start stimming, leave the room without asking, or throw...
Staci Neustadt
Jul 31, 20251 min read
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